Problems With Your Current Arrangements? 4 Signs You Need To Modify The Custody Orders
If you and your ex were involved in a custody dispute, and your ex was granted sole custody of your child, you may think that you have no other options left. However, that's not the case. You still have the option to return to court in an attempt to modify the orders. This is particularly important when you feel that the current custody arrangement is not in your child's best interest. There may be changes to your ex's life that require you to request modifications to your custody orders. Take a look at the information provided below. If you're dealing with any of the situations described here, it's time to speak to your attorney about child custody law and allowable modifications.
Custodial Parent Moves Frequently
Children require stability in their lives, especially while they're in school. Frequent moves can uproot children from familiar surroundings, causing them to change schools and lose friends. If your ex moves frequently, causing your child to change schools and lose friends, it's time to talk to an attorney, especially if you're able to provide a more stable home for your child.
Custodial Parent can no Longer Hold a Job
If your ex is no longer able to hold down a job, you need to consider the effect this is having on your child, especially if their lack of employment is preventing them from providing the proper care for your minor child. Losing a job doesn't make someone an unfit parent. However, if a pattern has developed where your ex is changing jobs frequently, and going for extended periods of time without employment, you need to speak to an attorney as soon as possible. There may be an underlying reason why your ex is no longer able to hold down a job.
Custodial Parent is Abusing Drugs or Alcohol
Drug and alcohol abuse can pose a serious risk for children, especially when the abuse is out of control. If you've discovered that your ex is abusing drugs or alcohol around your child, or they've been arrested for DUIs, sit down with your custody attorney immediately. Your ex may no longer be able to provide the proper level of care for your child as a result of their drug or alcohol abuse.
Custodial Parent Changes Relationships Often
Now that you and your ex are no longer together, it's normal for you both to enter into new relationships. However, you both need to consider how those new relationships will affect your child. If your ex changes relationships frequently and creates confusion for your child, it might be time to consider the modification of your custody orders. This is particularly important if your ex is having their new partners move into the home they share with your child.