4 Misconceptions About Divorce Mediation
Mediation in divorce cases gets a bad rap. While mediation may sound like a dream, many divorce attorneys try to help their clients see its benefits. Clients may be more willing to work toward mediation if they truly believe in its benefits.
But what happens when the benefits are clouded by misconceptions? These are four of the common myths associated with mediation and what you really need to know about the divorce process.
Mediators Will Be Biased
Mediators are actually not biased. They do not go into a session with a goal for one individual to get more than the other. The actual goal is to discuss matters gently and go over the potential ways forward. They have the goal of working toward productive conversation.
Mediation Means You Have to Split Things Evenly
Simply because you go to mediation does not mean that you have to split everything down the middle. Mediation can lead to any result that you and your spouse choose. For example, your spouse may agree that you need child support because you are a stay-at-home parent who has the children during the day.
The same logic could even apply to splitting up the family home. For example, you might see that your spouse will have the children most of the time, which means they should stay in the larger family home.
Mediation Means You Lose Rights
You do not lose your rights because you are opting for mediation. In fact, if you feel that you have lost your rights, you can always call off mediation and head to divorce court. Mediation goes as smoothly as you and your ex want it to. If you can communicate without getting emotional or passionate, you can work through mediation.
You Don't Need a Divorce Attorney for Mediation
You should still consult with a divorce attorney for mediation so that you understand your rights. It is very common for people to come to mediation without consulting with a legal professional, only for them to discover that they could have asked for more. Your attorney helps you understand your rights so you can make the best decisions for yourself.
Consult With a Divorce Attorney
Are you ready to consider mediation during your divorce? It's time to talk to a divorce attorney who understands your goals and can help you work in your own best interests. Set up a consultation today to discuss your divorce and issues like custody and child support.
Reach out to a divorce attorney today to learn more.